Taking the Blame
Poor Ajumma. It seems you have been through a lot. You know
it isn’t good to keep it inside. You should talk more about what happen. Hint
Hint – tell us EVERYTHING. I think Ajumma has also grown up from when she first
arrived. She also takes the blame for their son dying. Oh how much pain to have
gone through to have your son die but to know if you just want after him inside
of wanting to rant at Shin more about who is right or wrong. Oh Drama why do
you have to add another twist to things? There is another reason. I am going to
take a guess it has to do with Oppa. He must be sick, but is this all? I get
the feeling there might be more.
Please Stop Liking Me
Oh Drama Trope, Se Joo is told to stop liking Mi Rae and Se
Joo tells Yoo Kyung to stop liking him. Seconds leads never see how they are
hurting the second lead girl. Poor Second leads not being able to get the girl
he wants. Beside the second lead Drama issues, I still like how Se Joo keeps
telling Mi Rae is there something call destiny. He feels she must be his
destiny by meeting her before. Dude, you should have totally told her this from
the beginning. You make me angry sometimes.
Down the Rabbit Hole
What about Destiny or Fate? William Jennings Bryan stated ““Destiny
is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be
waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.” We make our Destiny by the choices
we make. Life gives us challenges and it is up to us to pick which path we
take. Do we get in the car accident and meet a man who could be a future
husband or do you do on a vacation to meet a man who could be a future husband?
In the case of Mi Rae I feel the second car accident is a
form of synchronicity (The interconnectedness of apparently unrelated events.) There is a reason behind the chance of
meeting again. But I also feel Se Joo seeing Mi Rae once again is his form of synchronicity.
There is a reason for him meeting her. Maybe I am looking too much into this
but I feel there is more to the drama than meets the eye. I love the idea of
figuring out what fate/destiny is and are we living a life already picked out
for us or do we pick it?
It is kind of like the idea of soul mates.
Many believe soulmates is an unrealistic expectation of life. Say if your
soulmate dies, in theory there isn’t another for you. Your love life is over
since you soulmate has passed. In reality, romantic relationships come and go.
Who is to say one is the soulmate over another?
Honeymoon love last about a year and than comes the true test of making
a relationship once the good chemicals have left your brain.
I know this is a
Drama but if we are going to talk about Destiny/Fate we have to talk about the
truth of love. Sure it is sweet to see the couple finding figuring out they
like each other and dating and than have the HAE, but what happens when the
happy, love chemicals go away? Most Dramas we don’t see the after the HAE.
Answer Me is one of the few we see a happy couple still together evening years
after figuring out they like each other. With Future Choice, we know bad things
will happen. Hence the reason why Ajumma comes back but she doesn’t know if Mi
Rae’s life with Se Joo would be any better. She thinks what she sees between Se
Joo and Kyung on TV is a happy couple but are they really. It could be an act
for TV. Heck, Se Joo and Mi Rae could have a fight or problems and another
Ajumma Mi Rae could be coming back.
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Darn you Drama!!!!
4 Episode left and you are making me go crazy over destiny, soulmates, and
time. I'm getting a head ache just trying to figure out how you are going to
end this drama. Knowing the future is not my mutant but I really wish it was so I know how much it
is going to hurt at the end.
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